Should I lie and tell him I'm a virgin?

Ok, so I met this 23 yr old guy, and I'm 20. He goes to a super conservative orthodox church, and most of its members are really strict, conservative immigrants. things seem promising for us relationship-wise (look at my previous questions for more background). the thing is, the guys from the church have zero respect for non-virgins when it comes to being in a relationship with them. my friend goes to his church and has always told me to tell any of the guys im a virgin if they ask, or they would just use me. my friend does the same thing. he's subtly and indirectly asked me a few times, but i haven't answered. he's been rather respectful so far, and not pushy, but i'm not sure if that would change if he found out i wasn't a virgin. anyway, i've only slept with one guy, whom i just broke up with after 2 years. advice please!